What is better, nice or kindness?

 When I was on the fire department, our Fire Chief had stickers made to say, "BE NICE". I still see them on bumpers and fire truck today. But is being nice good enough? Of course we should be nice to others, but how is that different from kindness? 

By definition, nice is being pleasant, courteous and polite. On the other hand, kind is being, warmhearted, friendly and generous in nature. And in there is the point. 

Christmas is the time people generally think of giving. Yes, gifts under the tree, watch children when they open that special gift they asked Santa for, and dropping some change in the red pot with the person ringing the bell, or giving the poor soul on the street your old coat because they have none. Kindness to me is taking those nice thoughts and making them into an action which helps someone.

I believe being nice goes hand and hand with kindness. And kindness does not necessarily mean to give money or objects, but maybe to just listen to someone when they have no one to talk to, or the visit someone who has no family or friends. And yes, we are still in a Pandemic which makes it harder but you will find a way.  A way that will light up someone's face and give them joy, even for a few minutes, or maybe turn their life around. Just for the mere fact that you are showing some kindness to who maybe a complete stranger. That alone may get them courage and hope all is not lost, and someone cares.

I once bought a homeless man a couple sandwiches and a bottle of milk when our fire truck stopped to get drinks after a fire call. The expression on the man face was all I needed. I sat down next to him and he told me, he had not eaten for a couple days, and I was the only person who stopped to see if he was OK. He was down on his luck and had no money. I directed him to a shelter farther into town and my crew all chipped in for bus fare. I never saw him again and pray he is doing well.

My point is, being nice and kind does not have to be expensive. It is just doing and being that person you really are. These are hard times for many people. Helping someone or family will make this Christmas season a better season for that person and for you too.

May your God bless you all, and Merry Christmas. Remember, in ALL religions, the Golden Rule is the same, no matter what you believe.